The Kuhns

Ten Thousand Charms

2012-02-20T14:40:00.000-08:00

Soooooo......not only have the books I have read been amazing, but they keep getting better and better. Seriously! This was such a sweet book about sins and forgiveness. I love, love, love Allison Pittman, Lynn Austin and Francine Rivers. Who can compare? The only thing is, I wish I had the sequel.

Graduation Countdown Has Begun

2012-02-15T17:44:00.001-08:00

113 days

12 hours

16 minutes

24 seconds

The countdown until I graduate!

Beguiled

2012-02-11T09:04:00.000-08:00

Talk about a good book. The books I have been reading lately make me wish I were in a book club! They are so ridiculously awesome I want to share them with others. The only bad thing is my nursing studies are definitely suffering due to my incessant need to read my fiction novels!

Poor and Needy

2012-02-11T08:57:00.000-08:00

Poor and Needy

Joseph Hart (1759)

Come, ye sinners, poor and needy,
Weak and wounded, sick and sore;
Jesus ready stands to save you,
Full of pity, love and power.

Refrain:
I will arise and go to Jesus,
He will embrace me in His arms;
In the arms of my dear Saviour,
O there are ten thousand charms.

Come, ye thirsty, come and welcome,
God's free bounty glorify;
True belief and true repentance,
Every grace that brings you nigh.

Come, ye weary, heavy laden,
Lost and ruined by the fall;
If you tarry till you are better,
You will never come at all.

Let not conscience make you linger,
Nor of fitness fondly dream;
All the fitness He requireth
Is to feel your need of Him.

Christian Fiction- December

2012-01-01T11:20:00.000-08:00

While I was on break, not only did I spend lots of time with my two lovely kids, but I also was able to read.....lots! It was everything I dreamed it would be!

Lynn Austin
     Wonderland Creek
     Eve's Daughters
     All She Ever Wanted

Allison Pittman
For Time and Eternity
Forsaking All Others (Currently reading)

I would say that Eve's Daughters is a favorite.....but, I loved them all! The Sister Wife series is a tough read, just because of the polygamy issue and you can actually feel the woman's pain.

"Hock'in Hills" -Charlie

2011-10-04T07:31:00.000-07:00

As soon as we got to the lodge, everyone heads straight for the hot tub. I tried telling them about the thermophiles, but nobody listens to me. Anyways! They had a blast!

I am pretty sure that mom had just as much fun as the kids did. Ethan kept yelling, "this is the best day ever"! That will make you feel happy in your heart.

I am so glad we took games for the kids. They didn't sit down for very long, but it did give us a mini-break from the noise.

Look at that bed head! Charlie slept with Nana the first night and her hair tells me she must have tossed and turned.

Our fist location we went to was Cantwill Cliffs. Charlie, "Ahhhhhh, look how beautiful that is!". I am glad she was able to take in the scenery.

I love the dirty looks she gives me. All because I made her eat a taco salad. She was total drama most of the trip.

I was sitting on the edge of a cliff at Rock House. Mom was spazzing out that I was too close to the edge.....but, it was amazing!

I was in pain most of the weekend, but I wasn't going to let it rain on my parade! So, I used distraction to help me take my mind off the pain. The climbing may have made things worse, but it was worth it! You could see God's hand in all the beauty!

I blanked out the day we went to Rock House and totally forgot to grab Ethan's inhaler! Guess who has an asthma attack at the bottom of the hike. I look at Luke for the med and he looks at me. "Oh, CRAP!" So we did guided breathing and Luke hiked to the top with Ethan on his back. Ethan is okay and Luke got a great workout, so I would say all is well. But, I learned my lesson! I will never forget it again.

I can't wait to go back to Hocking Hills to do more hiking. If you are looking for great cabins or lodges, here is the place to go: http://www.buffalofallslodge.com/. I was extremely impressed with the cleanliness! -it is hard being a germ-a-phobe!

Charlie is 3!

2011-09-13T05:56:00.000-07:00

Charlie's birthday celebration began on the Friday before at the House of Japan. You know you eat there often when your child masters the chopsticks. We went to lunch and they sang to her. She loved the pineapple with the sparkler. She did try with all her might to not smile, but she did not win the battle!

September 12- Charlie was born! It didn't even take her five minutes to come into this world. I pushed twice and she was here! I think that tells you something about that child. She is my "fireball", "earth-shaker"!

It would not be right to show something other than the true girl. She cries way less than she use to, but she still cries way to much. We had to bribe her with spearmint tea to get her to smile.

I am glad to see the spearmint tea worked wonders with my little diva! I love her outfit.

Ethan is my sweet boy! He was teaching Charlie how to play games like duck-duck-goose and hide-n-seek. Fun.

Waiting patiently!

Loves the attention.

After cake and ice cream, we went outside for a bonfire. The kids and adults had marshmallows. Yummy, sticky mess!

No more war!

Thank you family for such a wonderful evening.

Random August Pics

2011-08-18T17:12:00.000-07:00

So, generally we love to be outside. We do get creative and think of things to do with the kids. Luke filled up water balloons and let the kids hit them with the tennis racket. That will keep you cool.

I am thinking this could be an ad for a lemon company. I do not understand why the kids love to eat the lemons, but will not drink my fresh squeezed lemonade. I am sure they need sugar in it!

Charlie and Ethan love to help me cook dinner, when I do cook. With school, there is little time for all the things I love to do. We were making fried okra! My favorite, well, one of my favorites!

Seriously, Ethan was being sneaky and stealing a drink of my Dr Pepper! I do not like my kids drinking things that are full of sugar and caffeine. Bad combo for a kid on daily steroids! Did you know that in the hospital if a G-tube (feeding tube) becomes clogged, they will add coke to dissolve it?

This outfit makes me laugh. She is a girl who knows what she wants!

Why does my husband find a need to take a picture of me with my "mad face"? Really? You would not believe how many pictures he has taken of me with this expression. I think that is when he loves me the most. He says Charlie is just like me! I say we are SPUNKY!

Cetaphil in the hair! 9 washes later, still greasy! Palmolive Oxy Power, still greasy. Screaming! Still greasy. What else can I say? It is Charlie.

Ethan has come up with a song for the dog: "you are my Lady! and you will do what I say! and I will love you forever! and you will love me!"

Working

2011-08-18T16:57:00.000-07:00

The humidity was so bad that my camera was steaming up! I had to actually wipe off my camera to take pictures!

I love that Charlie isn't afraid to get dirty. Luke has to make Ethan play in the dirt. I found out later that day that Charlie had played with a worm until it split in half, and then continued to play with it. GROSS!

My little cowboy.

New patio coming soon!

Connor's Day

2011-08-18T16:48:00.000-07:00

Trying to keep my very hyper child under control. Thank goodness Benny's Pizza is loud and other kids are running around.

Connor was all grins as we sang to him. So sweet.

Baby brother, your the one! You make my bath time........ummmmm.........yeah.........better not finish the song. People might think I am; what's the word; crazy. I can't believe you are all grown up, little bro.

We had an amazing time celebrating Connor Russell's birthday! Popcorn, pizza and cake! Cannot go wrong with that one.

Fasting

2011-07-24T16:26:00.000-07:00

Luke and I are talking about doing a detoxifying fast. It gives your organs a rest to heal and anti-age! It also rids the blood of toxins. It is supposed to be great for people who have inflammatory disorders, allergies to foods that are being ingested, irritable bowel syndrome, colon disorders and tons more! Basically, it involves lots of water and raw vegetables (juiced). Also, supplements that have lots of protein and help stabilize blood sugar to help fight hypoglycemia. I think I will give it a try and then tell you all about it. I may have to work this around my exam schedule. I could be cleansed and see if I can stay focused longer. (I am truly working on my ADD.

It is totally Biblical too!

Texas Roadhouse

2011-07-24T16:21:00.000-07:00

Luke and I took the little people to Texas Roadhouse. If you have ever been there you know you throw your peanut shells onto the ground. No, my daughter throws them at the people sitting in the table next to us! I have to say she lightens up my day. Ethan, he is so hyper! We are working on sitting still while we eat. He has to get up and walk around, stand up in his chair while eating, and then he gets mad and refuses to eat. These are my children and I am pretty sure they inherited my temperament.

Sprinkler

2011-07-24T16:16:00.000-07:00

This is how I found poor Lady. Charlie decided she wanted to take green paint to her and then deny it. With the green evidence all over her hands! The next day she took a blue marker to the walls, four walls! Then she puts dirt into our gas tanks! It only takes her a second to tornado anything!

Andrew from Arizona has been visiting with us Ohioans for the last couple of weeks. We are so blessed to have him in our family. He is so well behaved and polite! Olivia has been here as well, I may have to do a little photo shoot with her!

Sleeping Beauties

2011-07-24T16:11:00.000-07:00

I am so glad my camera has a crazy bright flash so I could capture my little people while they were fast asleep.

What's in Your Diaper Bag?

2011-07-24T16:08:00.000-07:00

Yes, this is my thing. I don't care what is in your wallet, okay, maybe I do. In a weird, nosy way. Did you know I am a first born: control freak, leader, perfectionist (part-time, Luke calls me obsessive compulsive).

I did want to share with you all the things I can put in my "diaper bag":

Albuterol inhaler
Luna Protein bar
Burt's Bees lip balm
Crayons
Aveda hand relief
Calender
Coupons
iPod
Columbus State Nursing Badge
Travel toothbrush and toothpaste
3 Lipsticks
2 Tazo Zen tea
3 Emergen-C Tropical
Wallet
Keys with pepper spray
VegLife Vegan Multi-vitamin
Camera
Diaper
BabyGanics Foaming Hand Sanitizer
Formula 303
Hair clips and ponies
Beautiful travel size
And usually there is some type of school book thrown in there!

Sad thing is, I just cleaned it out a couple of days ago. I may need to downsize.

Carb DL

2011-07-10T13:16:00.000-07:00

Carbohydrates are the preferred source of energy! Not only do they promote energy, but they promote normal fat metabolism, spare protein, and enhance lower gastrointestinal tract function. If you do not have an adequate intake of carbohydrates, it affects your metabolism. Sources: apples, grapes, oranges, honeydew, plums, beans, corn, potatoes, peas, pasta, honey and milk.

This is a great web-site for you to learn about your daily intake. It even has daily food plans and a tracker.

http://www.choosemyplate.gov/index.html

Nursing Studies

2011-07-09T10:18:00.000-07:00

Are you looking for a great way to prepare for your HESI or NCLEX exam? Here it is! The Saunders Comprehensive Review for the NCLEX RN Examination. The book is in color and has great pictures, tables, and charts for the photographic learners. Also, there are questions not only on the CD, but also in the book! Including rationales and strategies! And....it gives an audio lesson on acid base balance, fluid and electrolytes, and pharmacology strategy! Shop around to get the best deal, but I did find mine on Amazon!

4th of July

2011-07-05T06:15:00.000-07:00

Let me just say that Tony Palooza was the best EVER! We had great food, great people and great fireworks! It helps that my kids are getting older and I do not have to watch them every single second. I can get by just keeping an eye on them. I still catch Charlie doing things like putting sand on top of her head, but I no longer have to worry about her eating things like rocks and bugs. Ethan has always been extra special and obedient. I really enjoy watching others having a good time.

Fishing Trip

2011-07-05T06:08:00.000-07:00

Charlie had a fit because I wanted to take her picture!

Ethan reminds me so much of my father. It isn't just the way he stands, but his passion to fish and work outdoors. Should I mention the use of weapons?

I had to bribe him to smile for the camera.

He got one! His first catch of the day. He gets a little to shotgun happy when the fish first bites.

Priceless!

We went fishing with Robbie and Mary, Benny and Logan, and the kids. We packed snacks and bug repellent!

Mary is expecting in less than 4 WEEKS!!!!! So very excited!

Garden Fun

2011-07-01T17:00:00.000-07:00

First, let me just say I do feed my child! If he isn't having an asthma fit or acid reflux, the kid eats like you wouldn't believe.

My husband gets this grand idea of having Ethan help in the garden. Luke asks Ethan to spread the grass around the green pepper plants. Ethan being the servant he is, does it with great enthusiasm. When I walk out there, I flip out! "You are having our son spread grass!" Ethan is ALLERGIC to GRASS! So, let me just say we did end up using Albuterol because he did have an asthma attack a short time later. Lesson learned.

HA! Poser! I do believe that he is mocking one of his cousins: Logan! Inside joke, "Do you think I am sexy? I will show you sexy?"

Diva in the garden. Yeah, that didn't last very long. She was back to running around and yelling! She doesn't understand that Ethan can take her shirt off but she needs to wear hers!

Papa works so hard in the garden. He definitely is a master mind at gardening and I feel like I am learning a ton. I can't wait to savor the green beans, corn, okra, spaghetti squash, zucchini, yellow squash, green peppers, tomatoes, eggplant, onions, I know I am missing something here! But the spaghetti sauce I jar lasts us all year long! I use it for lasagna, pizza, and regular spaghetti. My kids refuse to eat any other sauce, I have tried every brand and nothing resembles the freshness and yumminess of my very own sauce! It is such a compliment! Thanks Mama Kuhns for the recipe!

I was really hoping to capture the wild amount of bees on the lavender, but it didn't happen. I really need to invest in a better camera. It is beautiful watching them, and knowing they are making honey!

Introducing Lady Kuhns

2011-06-30T17:27:00.000-07:00

I want you to meet the newest edition to the family: Lady Kuhns.

She is about the sweetest little girl ever! We have had a few problems with chewing, but she is still a puppy and she is doing better. She knows when she is in trouble. Lady slouches down, tucks her tail in between her legs and runs out of the room.

This really is Ethan's best friend. He wakes up and the first thing he does is calls for her. When he goes to bed, he has to tell her, "goodnight" and give her a hug and a kiss. He even lets the dog sit on his face. NASTY! I have a pretty funny picture of that one on my phone!

I should probably tell you that Ethan has shared custody of Lady with Mama Jane. They share her. Ethan is amazing with her. I hardly ever remind him to get her fresh water, he just does it. He gives her treats, brushes her and even calls himself, "Daddy" when talking to Lady. Super cute!

Chaos

2011-06-30T16:56:00.000-07:00

As I was pondering during my time in the sun, I realized that my kids are getting harder to take care of as they age. I always thought it would be easier, because they could take care of themselves more and more. Yeah, not so much. As the years go by the stress level intensifies! The screams get louder! The tantrums are even more dramatic! The talking never stops! The messes are even bigger! The fights, they are scarier!

I believe that the GERD, acne, and major teeth grinding (cracked my stinkin tooth) is from the stress! Of course, not just the stress of raising children, but the stress of school, being a wife, a homemaker, daughter, aunt, and can I say nursing school one more time!

I was stung by a bee today, the stinger was still in there. I haven't had that happen since I was a little girl. That HURT! After it happened, I actually thanked God for helping with my tongue. It is pretty rare for me to say words that I consider a no-no, but it does happen on occasion. If you hear me say the f-bomb, then I am at my rarest, maddest, craziest moment. You may want to run!

But, on days like today when all the craziness calms down, the kids are in bed, the homework is done, I finally breath. I lay in bed and read my amazing book by Lynn Austin, and read my Bible and thank God I made it through another day. Life is but a moment. We are so much like China and how precious life is and how easy it can be broken. God, thank you for your unending love! Thank you that no matter how many times I mess up, no matter how bad it is, you never abandon me. I love how he wipes my slate clean, washes me white as snow!

COSI

2011-04-29T10:05:00.000-07:00

It has been years since I have been to COSI! The kids loved it! Nana and Corey came with us. We visited the oceans, LIFE, and the kidspace. It was a wonderful learning experience. Ethan likes it better than the zoo! I think I may have a future doctor on my hands.

Life

2011-03-13T11:25:00.000-07:00

It amazes me to see how much love Ethan has for his sister. He is so gentle and caring. My favorite part of the day is when I come home and Ethan asks, "Mommy, how was your day at school? What did you learn?"

Ethan got himself ready for church. He even threw his boot to get his hat down from the top shelf in the closet! He tells me he has a "friend" at church!

She is hilarious! She wanted to wear Benny's boots (Dawn really got them for her, but she refuses to accept it). She also had to have a BIG bow for her hair!

Char

2011-03-13T11:19:00.000-07:00

Charlie is so special! I remind myself constantly that she is an "Earth Shaker"! When I was pregnant, a woman prophesized that she was going to travel, and that she would be a singer. She also said that she saw legs, long legs! Then she went on to say that Charlie was going to be an "earth shaker". Janet McGee was right on!

Why is it so fun to wear mommy's glasses? My favorite is the Sunkisst sticker on her shirt. She was also wearing a Minnie Mouse swimsuit under her shirt.

Sitting with her legs folded and watching "Word World".

Please, I do not want to see your boogies Charlie!

Tea time!

And now Nap time!

Two Clinical Rotations Down

2011-03-07T14:10:00.000-08:00

So excited! Now, I have done my Long-Term Care Facility and my Obstetrics/Post-Partum rotations! It is such a good feeling to be able to cross classes off of my list. I feel like I am finally getting somewhere with this nursing degree.
I know that the long-term care facility is not for me. I also know that post-partum is not for me. Labor and delivery is exciting and I think that I could see myself as a labor and delivery nurse, maybe. I am just so excited to find out my nitch! One thing is for sure, I will be doing medical missions!

Clinical

2011-02-22T11:06:00.000-08:00

This quarter I have been at Doctor's Hospital. I worked at Riverside for 4 years, and 3.5 of them were on the post-partum unit. I am very upset to see the increase in drug use by pregnant mothers. This is one selfish act that affects an innocent human being! These poor babies ingest everything that their mothers ingest! Do you think that cigarette will not affect that baby, because it will! Do you think that it is okay to get high, no it isn't! Seriously, get over yourselves! A child is the most precious gift from God! You could have the next president of the United States of America in your belly! You could have the first person to develop a cure for cancer in you belly! Think about it!

Daddy Did It

2011-02-22T10:59:00.000-08:00

No joke. This happened last night.

Mommy walks in the bathroom and finds a pair of little girls Cinderella panties lying on the floor, wet.

Mommy, "Charlie, did you pee your pants!?!?"

Charlie, "No mommy."

Mommy, "Then why are your underwear wet!?!?"

Charlie, "Daddy peed in my panties."

Mommy, "Daddy didn't pee in your panties!"

Charlie, "Yes he did. Daddy peed in my panties!"

Mommy, "Then tell daddy to get in here and clean it up!"

Charlie smiles and tells daddy, "Get in here and pick up your dirty panties!"

It is a good thing this one is so super cute! She is a handful!

Smoothie

2011-02-08T11:24:00.000-08:00

To make your delicious smoothie:

1/2 cup nonfat vanilla yogurt
1/2 cup light cranberry juice
1/2 cup of frozen cranberries

Blend and serve!

You can use any ingredients you want. I like frozen strawberries and mixed berries. I also use different juice like cran-raspberry, or cran-grape. I try to use cranberry because it is so good for you! The grape is full of antioxidants. So, it is a win-win here! If you don't use frozen fruit, just add a little ice. It's one of those recipes you can change up and never get sick of.

Your Hands- JJ heller

2011-01-29T07:35:00.000-08:00

The first time I heard this song I was on my way to my parents for the night to help take care of dad. We knew our time was very limited with dad. For whatever reason, he liked having me there to be his "nurse". It was in January of last year and it was about 8 PM. After weeks of only getting a couple of hours of sleep per night, I was at my breaking point. I was so tired of being strong, not crying, doing things I could never have imagined doing for my father. This song came on the radio, and I lost it. I realized I couldn't do it anymore! It was only through His strength that I could get through one more day! I didn't understand "WHY" would God do this to me, to my daddy. I knew it wasn't God who gave my father cancer. I know God performs miracles everyday. I just didn't understand why he didn't heal my father. "Why" God wouldn't leave this man on earth who was a total servant. I was so angry and hurt. My heart was broken and I felt physical pain. This song made me realize that God was crying with me. That God was holding me in His Hands! My father is one of God's children. I am just so grateful that JJ Heller made this song and that the River played it at the perfect time when I was emotionally and physically done. Dad accepted Jesus in his heart at the hospital the first week of January. I know I will see him again, and when I do, I will hug him and kiss him! The time here on earth I have to wait to see him again is nothing compared to the eternity I get to spend with him.

Randomness

2011-01-25T12:32:00.000-08:00

My little Chuck-a-luck-a-luss! Diva!

My hubby! I love this man. We were seperated for four long years after highschool! I know what my life is like without him, and I would love to have him forever! If I could trade those four years, I wouldn't. I realize how much I learned during that time. One thing is for sure, I would never want to let him go!

Seriously! At the Nana's table! Have I taught you nothing about GERMS!

AWWW! The boys will not let her play. Mommy had to intervene.

Papa Ben's shoes still sit in the same place he always sat them. I can't believe that they are almost bigger than her sitting.

I captured this moment after I came home from school.

I love my sweety helping and putting my shoes away. Thanks Chuck!

Did somebody call the Sheriff?

Deedee! I found you!

Lunchables!

Christmas Day

2011-01-25T11:38:00.000-08:00

I have to say, I have never seen this face before! I love Charlie and all her creativity.

Ethan loves Mickey Mouse Clubhouse. When I went to Polaris Mall, I didn't know they had a Disney Store. You can imagine how excited I was!

Charlie's baby was so sick! We had to call Dr. Kuhns to help!

I am glad somebody likes the fish! I do hate taking care of it!

Christmas pre-game.

CSCC

2011-01-14T08:01:00.000-08:00

I am so happy to announce that this quarter at school is way better. Well, in some ways. There seems to be more organization and I feel the instructors are more involved with the success of their students! I was blessed with a great clinical instructor and I am very excited to be working on the postpartum unit! The work load is more than I can handle, but I know that this is God's will. So God, it's all you! I can't do this in my own stregnth.

Brides of Gallatin County

2011-01-11T10:42:00.000-08:00

I just finished this series by Tracie Peterson. It is a christian fiction that takes place in Montana in1879. After years of their father dragging them all over, they settle in this small town running a roadhouse. The three sisters face an unexpected tragedy.

Each novel is about one of the three sisters. It is a beautiful western that has won my heart!

Promoting Healing and Wellness

2010-12-22T07:10:00.000-08:00

Herbs have been used for centuries to heal the body. (I am in total shock that God really did think of everything. He gave us all we need to care for our bodies.) Many of the prescription medicines formulated by pharmaceutical companies are derived from plants. Why has America steered away from using a homeopathic approach? Is it because of the pharmaceutical industry? I have decided to go back to the roots.

Ginger (Zingiber officinale)

According to Balch in Prescription for Nutritional Healing, "Fights inflammation, cleanses the colon, reduces spasms and cramps, and stimulates circulation. A strong antioxidant and effective antimicrobial agent for sores and wounds. Protects the liver and stomach. Useful for bowel disorders, circulatory problems, arthritis, fever, headache, hot flashes, indigestion, morning sickness, motion sickness, muscle pain, nausea, and vomiting." (113).

Primrose (Oenothera biennis)

In Prescription for Nutritional Healing, primrose is used for, "Promotes cardiovascular health. Aids in weight loss and reduces high blood pressure. Acts as a natural estrogen promoter. Helpful in treating alcoholism, arthritis, hot flashes, menstrual problems such as cramps and heavy bleeding, multiple sclerosis, and skin disorders" (Balch 123).

I got this incredible book for only $19.00 from Amazon, originally $30.00! I highly recommend it!

Really?

2010-12-21T09:38:00.000-08:00

I walked into the living room and found Barbie reading People magazine. Charlie.

Ethan was getting his breathing treatment in the AM and I look over to check on him. I was shocked to find that he has found a way to suck his thumb even while he gets his steriods! Really! It is a total addiction.

Ellis Christmas Party

2010-12-21T09:35:00.000-08:00

Pizzelles!

This is Kya, my 3rd cousin. She is only 5 months old.

She weighs more than Charlie who is 2 years and 3 months.

My momma!

It is always a wonderful time when we all get together and everyone is happy. Unfortunately, I only see some of my family twice a year. I am so glad that the traditions go on.

Santa? Really?

2010-12-16T13:59:00.000-08:00

Ethan's Christmas program was very cute! They started off by being read to, then sang two songs, then Santa came to pass out gifts. Well, Ethan knows santa is not real, but still would like to believe he is real. He is stuck somewhere in the middle. He loved his Woody car that makes noise and goes upto 20 ft. He told his teacher "Merry Christmas" on the way out and it made me want to cry! He is just so big!

Bath Time

2010-12-16T13:54:00.000-08:00

Ethan got a shaving kit for his birthday. He cannot wait for bathtime to shave. He is pretty good.

Very thorough!

Look at those eyes. Piercing!

Christmas Cookies

2010-12-16T13:52:00.000-08:00

Daddy starts these super fun projects! Guess who gets to clean up? You guessed it...Mommy. But, I would say it is worth watching the kids have fun.

Ethan is a total artist!

She started putting it on her face as though it were make-up, and then began to eat it! Flour, really!

They make my life worth living!

Poser

2010-12-16T13:47:00.000-08:00

Charlie wanted mommy to take her picture under the tree. She really acts much older than 2!

So tired.

To the Next Quarter

2010-12-11T12:59:00.000-08:00

I am so excited to share that I passed my first quarter of nursing school! Unfortunately, I have not been impressed with Columbus State Community College's Nursing program. It seems to be very unorganized. My first day of class, nobody knew what was going on, where to go, who to talk to, and the instructors were pretty clueless themselves.  A couple of instructors explained that the program is designed for younger adults, without a significant other, and without children. They were not joking! There are some professors that I feel are very passionate about their job and really care about the success of their students. Others, not so much. I am sure that this happens anywhere you go.

I am happy that I am finally getting my education and learning about something I am supposed to do. God has really put a calling on me to do medical missions. When I was taking care of dad last year, He really confirmed my calling. (Oh, how I wish dad was here so I could tell him all my funny poop stories.) Last quarter was trying. It probably was an attack by the enemy to keep me from doing God's will. Not only did poor Ethan have some problems and we started seeing an allergy and asthma specialist, Charlie had tubes put in her ears, I got bronchitis and pneumonia at the same time, and my pain was getting worst.

I started seeing a chiropractor, Dr. Richard Briggs, for an intense treatment program. The first month, I went four times a week. Now I am going three times a week for a while now. He is located in Dublin, Ohio off of Frantz Rd. I highly recommend him for not only back issues, but headaches! My pain is manageable for the first time since May. I have stopped all my medications and I am taking Formula 303, it is an all natural supplement to help relax my muscles. There were days I would lay in bed and tell God how much I would rather be with him than to live in this excruciating pain. I only feel tingling in my face once in a while, my headaches occur about 2-3 times a week, my back doesn't hurt at all, and my right arm is free from pain, my fingers have tingling once in a while, and I am in such a better mood! When you have chronic severe pain, it affects every aspect of your life. Yeah, for Dr. Briggs! He is fixing me!  The first time I met him, I went from complete hopelessness to seeing the end of a rainbow! He gave me hope! Now that I am seeing improvement, I know that this all natural approach is a better choice! Plus, I have never in my life met an incredible staff like he has in his office. The girls are friendly, helpful, and really do care.

Next quarter I go on to study obstetrics! I cannot wait! I am also taking a nursing skill class and pharmacology. I just looked at the calender for the quarter and we have a test on the first day! Cruel! Who wants to study on Christmas vacation?

Happy Birthday Ethan!

2010-12-03T10:40:00.000-08:00

My first son was born 4 years ago! Wow! I can't believe how fast the time is going by and all we have endured in that short time period. We have been blessed with an amazing child of God!

I walked in the kids bedroom and Ethan was standing next to Charlie's bed, rubbing her head. When we go places without his sister, he worries about Charlie getting a sticker or sucker. He will offer his candy to other children who do not have any.

When Ethan smiles, he lights up the room with his big blue eyes and rose bud lips! He has such a sweet excitement for life!

He has been through so much with his recurrent croup, bronchitis, sinus infections, asthma and allergies. I am so proud of how big he is at the doctors and how he can take total control of the situation. I can't wait to see how God uses this to his advantage! I know Ethan will be so strong and he is a total servant of God. Maybe we can do medical missions together!

Dad

2010-11-10T07:25:00.000-08:00

I am getting ready to go to my parents house for lunch. It isn't the same over there. The days of living at home are long gone. Working until 11:30 at night and getting home after midnight. Eating my 1 AM dinner and seeing my dad walk through the door, also just getting home from work. Sitting on the couch eating ice cream and watching late night TV. Waking up in the morning and watching Matlock with dad. Hearing dad ask me why I slept so late and he has been up for hours. Asking dad for help because my Mustang is once again stuck in the 1" of snow on the ground! Never having to worry about windshield washer fluid, or my tags on my car, or air in my tires, or if the door would be unlocked for me when I got home late. I miss mom calling me to say dad wants to know where you are at and what time you will be home. Luke told me that dad and him had a talk. Dad told him that he wasn't worried about the other kids, he knew that they could take care of themselves. He worried about me. I have always been the "sickling", always needing help. I have never really known where I "fit-in" in life. Dad was always thinking of others. I know that I was cheated! I will not get the years ahead to spend with my father. He is in a better place.

I had a sweet patient at the long term care facility the other day. She lost her husband and before he died he told her it was okay, and that he was going to a place where there is no pain or suffering and it is better for him. So, I will try to be accepting of the situation. There is no more suffering for dad, though the pain I feel is so excruciating! Here is a time that I need to not be selfish and come to terms with reality. I always think of the music video "Waitin on a Woman". It has "Matlock"- Andy Grifith in it and it reminds me so much of him!

Fall Fun

2010-11-07T05:51:00.000-08:00

We are on our way to Nana's so mommy can go to school.

Boys will be boys!

This year is so much fun! The kids are really connecting with nature. It makes me realize how precious God is and how much he loves us!

Nana is always working.

The sun rays are hints of the rainbow. I love all the colors!

"I am not sure if I can take another minute!"

Bowling

2010-11-07T05:43:00.000-08:00

Cowboy Woody. We have watched Toy Story 3 three times in the past 24 hours! I am just happy that it is a movie I love. Unfortunately I do not have the luxury of sitting and watching movies all day, but I do hear it in the background and I love it. It is one of the funnies movies!

We went bowling! It is something we have wanted to do for a while now. It was scary taking Charlie! She is loud and thinks she can do anything that pops in her mind. It was actually pretty successful. She didn't bust until we got to the car. Then she screamed!

Ethan is a total natural. He rolls the ball underdog style, and he hits the bumpers most of the time. It was funny seeing his face when he realized that I have my own ball and shoes!

Charlie was so proud of herself! Her favorite part of bowling was the music. She liked dancing and the way her boots sounded on the waxed, wood floor.

Pretty!

Ethan gets so mad at me when I make him stop so I can take a picture. I have to capture these sweet moments. One day my memory will fail me and I will love looking back at these moments.

STRIKE!

Go Nicky!

2010-10-24T08:13:00.000-07:00

Ethan called "his brother" Nicky last night and laughed at himself. He thought he was so funny! Yeah! Nick shot a deer! I am sad to say it is strung up in the shop! GROSS! Well, I guess I have to get over the thought of it "draining" and move on. I can work on cadavers, but not a deer. REALLY KELLY! I love going back to the roots of living. It is so much easier, or not easier, but I should say more work. It is so much more rewarding!

Deer, Ready or Not, Here We Come!

2010-10-23T15:01:00.000-07:00

The guys are getting ready for hunting!

The guy with the mohawk, is our cousin Nick. Ethan calls him "my brother"!

We have no clue where that came from, but we think it is hilarious!

Notice Ethan's weapon of choice!

He is just like his mommy or as he calls me, Kelly!

Mama gets the run and greet! That is total honor!

No we sit and wait to see if they bring a deer home! Since I am on my big health kick, Luke says there is nothing more hormone free and antibiotic free than a deer. And we will save money! You go baby!

A Day With Us Or A Couple

2010-10-23T14:50:00.000-07:00

My pretty Charlie is in a great mood today! She is getting ready for church at Radiant Life and we are so grateful for her!

Do you see what I see? Oh, yes, that is correct! Two deer waiting for Luke to shoot! That's right, there is the family dinner for this coming winter! Well, not for me, but for my loved ones!

Ethan drives Charlie around most of the time. She does drive, but it is SCARY!

This our first leaf playing experience this year. I am not sure that Charlie remembers last year.

Sweet love!

Ethan tells me today he is saving his money for a monster truck like on TV. And I asked him if he will drive me around. You know he told me no! I went on telling me that he would drive Charlie around because she is his best friend.

I love this picture! Ethan is ready to pounce!

I love my "Forest Gump"!

Do you know how I feel about sticks? Well, normally, I scream. Those are dangerous!

Ethan was waiting for Charlie and I to catch up with him.

He makes me smile.

I can't believe my kids are 3 and 1/2 and 2 and they tell me what they want to wear. If I pick out something, they tell me "no". Really, you are not old enough to pick out your own clothes! Or slam the doors (Charlie)!

Give me a real one!

They are planning the tornado! For those of you saying "WHAT". That is when one runs one direction and the other one runs the other direction! It is chaos!

There they go!

I get so mad!

Charlie is putting lipstick on with her dandelion!

Notes on Nursing and Other Writings

2010-10-21T16:13:00.000-07:00

Notes on Nursing and Other Writings by Florence Nightingale was first published in 1859. There will be a point in your life when you are taking care of someone and will need tips. It may be a mother caring for her child, a husband caring for his wife, a child caring for a parent, what ever situation may arise, Nightingale has priceless ideas that are relevant for today.

Did you know in 1860 a nurse typically had 50 patients on a ward. Not only did she check vital signs, change bandages, and comfort patients, but se also swept and mopped the floors, washed the windows, brought in coal to stoke the fire, washed linens (there weren't disposables back then), and worked thirteen hour days! And we complain!

Nights at the Kuhns'

2010-10-15T06:40:00.000-07:00

Luke and the kids get "rowdy" around bedtime! I love it when Ethan belly laughs, it makes all the stress in the world go away and I realize how sweet life really is! Charlie is hit or miss. Sometimes bedtime is fun and other times it consists of lots of screaming. Daddy is the BEST!

Happy Birthday Brandon!

2010-10-15T06:35:00.000-07:00

We all had such a great time for Brandon's birthday! Ava and Ethan hid in the closet from Sophie and Charlie. I was introduced to Dutch Blitz! The best game ever!

Hunters

2010-10-15T06:31:00.000-07:00

Daddy was getting ready to go Dove hunting and Ethan thought he would go with him. I am sad to say it was an unsuccessful night of hunting, but next time will be better! Ethan was very disappointed when he found out he has to wait another eight years or so before he can go with daddy!

Nursing Life

2010-10-07T15:33:00.000-07:00

I get up at 4:50 in the morning. I take a long shower, do my hair and make-up. Slowly, I make my way to the kitchen for my tea and a light breakfast before running out the door. Then, I proceed to either the downtown campus or to my clinical site. Hopefully, I make it there early enough I can have a little review time. After a long day, I go home to see my sweet children and my sweet husband. I am usually exhausted and find no time or energy for dinner. Therefor, I pick up takeout at one of our favorite hot spots. Clean up is super easy and then that allows a little time for me to study before the next day begins! I hit the bed pretty early since I am trying super hard not to wear myself down.

Charlie Celebrates Her 2nd Birthday!

2010-09-13T19:10:00.000-07:00

The little diva wore her pretty dress with sandals. She requested her nails to be painted pink. Of course, what baby wants, baby gets. At least for that day. She wanted her hair down so we did a side braid to keep her hair out of her face. She was so cute!

Auntie Kara willingly shares her phones with Charlie, though it may not be the best idea.

Mommy and Daddy strike a pose with the diva for a brief moment before everyone arrives for the party.

Ethan is so sweet. He really does take such good care of Charlie. He wanted everything to be special and helped set up and clean. Now he is counting down until his special day.

WOW, Princess Luke with his chew in. And the flannel! That's why he is mine! I love you Lukey Baby!

Princess cake from the Hilliard Dairy Queen..

The wind caused some issues in trying to light the candle. But, we made it work.

Diva is AKA "Mean Girl"

I love it!

When I ask Kara to take pictures with our camera, it comes back with a large amount of herself. She cracks me up. I edited this one for you.

Kara and the mysterious J.

Bubbles! All the kids received a bucket of bubbles. I wanted an awesome picture of all the kids with the bubbles and my lovely camera battery died! Unbelievable.

I can't believe my baby is another year older. We went to the doctor today and she has grown! She is 21 lbs. which is a gain, but she is still not on the charts. Developmentally, she has flourished! We took her Binky away and now the words come flying out of her mouth. Her voice is so sweet and delicate. Famous phrases, "Daddy hug", "Daddy kiss", "Ethan shut up", "Kiss mommy", "I don't want that", "UUUUIIIIIIEEEEE, Yucky".

Today, I was in the restroom. When I realized I didn't hear her, I immediately stopped what I was doing to check on her. When I walked out of the bathroom, I saw a chair in front of the door. The door was unlocked. My heart stopped. She had escaped. If you haven't been to my place, we have a very scary (well scary to a mother) flight of stairs to battle when leaving our place. I open the door and looked down and she was sitting at the bottom of the stairs with the fear of God in her eyes. She wasn't sure if she should run or wait for what was to come. Thank God she was safe.

Charlie hates her hair to be done, or touched at all. She loves to be naked, it reminds her of how free she is. If Ethan has a toy, she wants it. If Luke is holding Ethan, Charlie wants daddy. She stains all of her clothes. Dumps anything and everything directly onto the floor. She calls her bestfriend, Ethan, "Efan". She cries everytime I am on an important call. The pediatrisians office asked me what is going on with her, because she seems to cry frequently. I laughed and told them that they have no idea. She cries all the time. They asked how I deal with it, I tell them how "special she is and that she is an earth shaker"!

Check This Out

2010-09-06T14:16:00.000-07:00

I am just starting my research. I will share;

www.centerforfoodsafety.org

No more drama Mama

2010-09-06T13:56:00.000-07:00

Officially! I will have no more drama in this house! I will speak life and health over my family. I have decided to take a new approach to life. I will workout to train for a marathon. This family will eat healthy! I will not yell and be as high strung!

I just sent Luke to the store to buy all natural food (no preservatives, no processed, no hormone producing yuck). I am going to try a new diet to see if there is a change in our health. I will keep you posted on the health. Living healthy is the unselfish thing to do not only for my family, but for myself! People are messing with the genetics of produce and animals in order to create more, more and more. So the eggs you are eating are full of hormones to create more eggs. Cows are injected with hormones to produce more milk. The studies show that the hormones have negative effects on humans, specifically children. MSG (monosodium glutamate) messes with the brains signals by causing neurons to continually fire and is causing over stimulation. Our kids are ingesting this crap and are developing earlier, are diagnosed with ADD, asthma, eczema. Lets figure this out. It doesn't take a scientist!

Hello all natural smoothies, good-bye Taco Bell! Hello Elliptical, good-bye....Oh no! I have to work on the time management to squeeze in the work out. I will study while I run. Grrrr.

Ellis Reunion

2010-09-06T13:47:00.000-07:00

Mmmm....Watermelon

The only thing she would eat.

Ethan will not sit still long enough for a picture!

Another great year for the Ellis Family Reunion. It is so sweet to get together evey year to catch up on life. Tonya figured out that we have been doing this for 17 years. I still remember Grandma Ellis' bright smile as we celebrated her birthday! Sweet woman!

2010-09-06T13:39:00.000-07:00

Charlie's hair is so long!

He is something else!

We love bath time.

Starbucks

2010-08-25T05:55:00.000-07:00

We all need to indulge every once in a while in something. Mine is Starbucks. I visit the coffee shop every once in a while to enjoy a sweet beverage. Usually it is a seasonal drink. I love there black tea in the summer. Tall soy carmel machiato in the fall. And my personal favorite of all time, a double tall soy 1 pump mocha 2 pumps peppermint with whip! It is Christmas in a cup! I have critiqued the Christmas in a cup to get just the right amount of each flavor. Next time you visit your local Starbucks, give the Christmas in a cup a try! Mmmmm!

Train Ride

2010-08-22T11:39:00.000-07:00

We went to Nelsonville to ride a real train! It was wonderful and exciting and exhausting. My Aunt Stella, cousins: Dawn, Ray, Sherry, Ty, Star, Blake, sister Chelsea, nephews: Connor, Logan, Corey, my two: Ethan and Charlie along with my momma all were there. It only took about an hour and a half to get there which would have been a lovely drive had my diva chilled out! We had a great time even with all the rain and I can't wait to do it again!

The kids were so excited to leave and we couldn't get there fast enough!

Corey's mommy, Kara, wasn't able to get off of work. So, here are pics for you Kara.

Charlie only waited patiently for about 2 minutes. Then it got real ugly!

Star looks like a Hawaiian beauty.

Connor was so sweet!

Corey

And the screaming began! or should I say continued!

We were robbed! It was pouring buckets of rain!

Logan's smile is priceless!

Ethan was so funny. When the robbers came around I explained to him that he had to give the guys his money. I said, "No mommy. This is my money!" When the guy opened the bad and told us to give him our money, Ethan searched his pocket frantically for his money.

There was a beautiful rainbow!

You could actually see the end of the rainbow! I should have a better camera to capture these moments!

Ethan was sad when it was all over. Then I explained that we would do it again and he cheered right up.

Most of us were soaked! Some were drenched. Luckily, Chelsea had a stash of dry clothes in her car so that all the kids could change!

Love Life

2010-08-16T07:31:00.000-07:00

I am missing the easy days. It is funny to think I was exhausted when all I had to do was take care of the house and kids. My days weren't in a rush, I did what I could and I was satisfied. When you add on one more task, like school, oh how did things change. Now I rush around all day long. I am never satisfied, because there is always one more thing I should have finished. Or, I didn't get enough time with the kids or to prepare a nice dinner for my family. The battles you fight as a parent. The choices you make, no longer are about YOU!
I have decided to enjoy this life as I roll with the punches. Because, I don't want to live frustrated one second longer! I do not want to be consumed by the "I wish", "I hurt" or "I hate" anymore. So, I will do what I can during the daytime and get plenty of sleep at night time. I will study when I have time and maybe even schedule it in my day. I will make time to play with my little ones on the floor and not on my desk when I am waiting for something to load on my computer. I will make time to hug and kiss my Luke, and tell him "I love you" every single day!

I really enjoy looking back at pictures and videos to see what was going on at that exact moment. When I look back and see all the pleasurable moments, I realize how good it really is (my life)! How sweet it is!!!!
I am reading the book, Her Mother's Hope by Francine Rivers. It is wonderful, sweet, real, and I love Rivers because she really changes who I am. Her characters imprint themselves into who I am.

This is a sweet moment in my life. I was in my man's arms. My dad was in his recliner. Mom was in the kitchen. Ethan was on the floor playing. Charlie was in my belly. All was calm.

Happy 87th Birthday

2010-08-16T05:47:00.000-07:00

y grandpa Lewis is celebrating his 87th birthday today. It is amazing to reminisce with him. Dad was so much like him, we hear the same stories over and over again. Which, I love because I feel I get something from it I didn't get the first time. The man has experienced and lived in his 87 years of life. He served in the Army during WWII, retired from the Norwich Fire Department, had three children, lost a wife, lost one son. Then you hear him say "Look at what I did. Every damn one of them have Lewis blood in them, thanks to me." (about his grandchildren playing in the drive way).

Grandpa was on a motorized bike showing eveyone a little crack!

The suprise party was pulled off. He thought maybe something was going on, but still was in shock. Grandpa got to meet two great-grand children he has never met.

Redeeming Love

2010-08-11T07:03:00.000-07:00

I just finished reading Redeeming Love by Francine Rivers, again! There is something magnificent about reading it every year. It reaches me at a different level every time I read it. It is about a young woman who is sold into prostitution as a small child. She meets a man who fights for her life. Amazing!

More Tractor Show

2010-07-27T07:17:00.000-07:00

Poor kid, wanted a ride bad on this John Deere!

Last year, Ethan could stand in there without slouching.

Luke and Ethan, intensely watching the tractor pull.

As usual, Charlie was screaming. Good thing she is cute!

We had another great year! It was definitely different, without dad. For the first time, we had to buy our own tickets to get in. Dad always got us a family pass. Sweet man. I have so many great memories there with that man. I hope to create memories like mine with my own children. Can't wait for next year!

Steam Thresher's

2010-07-27T07:06:00.000-07:00

Ethan and his cousin, Nicky, had a blast watching the tractors and having candy thrown at them!

Charlie makes such a great cowgirl! It so fits her personality!

Perry in his mini-car and the kids in "AWWW".

Oh, yes, that is me in the road picking up candy. "I want that!"

"Sweet"

We had such a great time watching the parade at great grandma and great grandpa's. Nicky was so kind to help us pick up all the candy during the parade. I am not sure if Ethan liked the candy or the tractors best.

Quiet Ride Home

2010-04-20T05:27:00.000-07:00

Taking the kids to the zoo ends to be the best day ever! Not only do we have tons of fun out and about, just the three of us (though we do miss daddy so much), but they sleep forever. Sleep means lots of quiet study time for mommy! I am getting to the point of needing a little noise to study. I went to the library to study the box of bones and kept checking myself to make sure I wasn't thinking out loud!

Nursing School

2010-03-26T05:51:00.002-07:00

I got into Nursing School at Columbus State Community College! I will start in Sept.! It has been such a long process and I can't wait to get started!

School Bus Stop

2010-03-26T05:51:00.001-07:00

We have so much fun waiting for the school bus. Charlie is usually screaming (ahhhh). Logan eating the candy I bought him (sorry Benny and Chelsea). Ethan playing video games (grrrr). Logan is squeezed into the back of the SUV. This is why I need a MINIVAN! But, I am grateful I have a vehicle to get me all the places I am needed!

First Trip to The Zoo This Season

2010-03-26T05:51:00.000-07:00

Every time we go the zoo, my sweet babies ask to see the same things: monkeys, manatees, snakes, frogs. It's like a broken record!

This was the first visit that Charlie was really into it! We didn't have any screaming meltdowns, until we got to the car.

We could seriously watch the the fish for hours. I don't know why, but I sometimes feel like I can't breath at the zoo.

Charlie pointing out funny things!

Turtles! We might have to go hunting for creatures down by the creek. Good thing the kids aren't afraid to touch anything. I want to scream!

Funny

2010-03-26T05:46:00.000-07:00

Ethan thought it was so funny, being in Charlie's bed. They played in there for a long time before I had to make them get out. Ethan can jump out of the bed, but Charlie can climb out. It is time for a big girl bed. I am thinking bunk beds, space savers! I have a feeling there are going to want to sleep in each others bed. They are the best siblings!

Just Thinking

2010-03-10T12:15:00.000-08:00

Where has the time gone? I feel as though Luke and I were just married and stepped off the plane from our honeymoon. Two children later, the loss of my father, and a little closer to my nursing degree can make you age (just a little).

Would I do anything different? No. Sometimes I think I should have waited to have kids until after I got my degree. Then, we would have a house and the minivan of my dreams (oh Honda Odyssey). But, God had a perfect plan. My father was part of two of my babies' lives. Will they remember him? Probably not. We do have lots of pictures to show them when they get older of how much he loved them! And I have lots of sweet memories of him holding them, buying them gifts.

Am I angry? Yes! Satan gave my father the cancer. I feel like I have been cheated by my God. Why wasn't he healed? Why didn't God intervene? I finally figured it out. It isn't about me.

My father was in my future plans. Telling my dad about a future pregnancy. Making him guess what the sex of the baby is and then showing the ultrasound pictures. Playing in the pool he filled up for us all summer. Meeting him to watch Ethan play football. Taking him to Charlie's recitals. Picking them up to attend my kids' graduation ceremony. Attending their weddings. Pulling in the driveway to see dad and mom sitting on the porch eating Popsicles. Dad is waiting for us. He always was a hurry and wait man. He hurried and now he is waiting for all of us.

Will the pain go away? I have been told it will someday. Now, no. My routines involved dad. Now I am making a new way for me and the kids. Life will never be the same.

I will never know why. I have to trust God. Dad prayed the sinner's prayer in the hospital when he had no hope. After that, he had all the hope in the world. His life wouldn't be over, it would just be starting. The pain for us is so real, but knowing I will see him again makes it bearable.

Video Games

2010-03-05T05:10:00.000-08:00

Ethan is officially locked into the video game world. He started playing a couple months ago and had to be put on a time allowance. He gets 15min. a day to play the Wii. Charlie can't play yet, but she holds the remote and pretends she knows what she is doing.

Life

2010-03-05T05:02:00.000-08:00

Big girl! Training her at a young age to clean up after herself.

Shortly after dad's passing, Charlie went on a mad hunt searching for her papa. She looked in closets and in his bedroom, yelling for him. Break my heart!

January 31, 2010

2010-02-05T16:21:00.000-08:00

Obituaries
Benson Lewis (Died January 31, 2010)
Benson (Ben) B. Lewis, of Plain City, born January 8, 1949 in Columbus, went to be with the Lord on January 31, 2010 after a long, courageous battle with cancer. Graduate of Hilliard High School, class of ’69. Enlisted in the US Army on June 9, 1969 to June 8, 1975; where he was assigned to 2nd Armored Division (Hell on Wheels). Served in Vietnam with the 1st Infantry Division from November 12, 1969 to October 28, 1970. Retired from Honda of American, Mfg. His passions involved his land, fishing, reading and his family. Born to Charles M. and Betty (Cramer) Lewis. Preceded in death by mother. Survived by loving wife of 31 years, Debra, son Benjamin (Chelsea) Lewis, daughters Kelly (Luke) Kuhns, Kara (James) King and Carrie (Danny) Carl, grandchildren, Brooke, Kayla, Devon, Logan, Corey, Ethan, Connor and Charlie, loving niece Dawn Grames, father Charles and stepmother Joann, brother Charles E. (Catherine), sister Janis (John) Eger, numerous sisters-in-law, brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews, best friend Bob Weary and many dear friends. Family will receive friends 4-8 pm Wednesday at the TIDD FUNERAL HOME, 5265 Norwich St., Hilliard, OH 43026; where funeral service will be held 11 am Thursday with Pastor Dave Yoder officiating. Interment New California Cemetery.

As I sit and think of my future, I am deeply sadened by my loss. My father was amazing and brought joy to many peoples lives. I learned things about my father at his funeral I would have never known. He was wounded four times in vietnam. My dad was the guy everyone wanted to be like in high school; he was good-looking, dressed nice, had an awsome car, and treated everyone the same- with tender care. I am still in shock and can hardly believe he is gone. At the funeral I realized that I was happy for him. Dad has no more pain and no more suffering. Sad for me, I have been cheated out of another 2o-30 years with my father. Life will never be the same and I have to learn how to live without him.

One Year Ago

2009-12-24T13:54:00.000-08:00

It was one year ago that my sweet girl was hospitalized with RSV. God was so good to me and totally protected me. I went into survival mode and didn't even realize how sick she was until we got home. I am so thankful for Tony and Janie taking Ethan for about a week so that I could be with Charlotte the whole time. I missed last Christmas with everyone, so I get to make it up this year! Look out, here we come.

Christmas Continued

2009-12-24T13:52:00.000-08:00

Christmas at the Kuhns'

2009-12-24T13:44:00.000-08:00

We had such a great Christmas celebrating with Auntie Becky (just kidding- Becca), Erin and Brandon and the girls, and Mama and Papa Kuhns. We had a delicious meal followed by presents. It is amazing how many gifts there were for everyone! Charlie was into everything, including the toilet! Ava and Ethan are just now starting to fight over toys. I love the chaos!

Ellis Family Christmas Party

2009-12-22T11:50:00.000-08:00

Waiting patiently for the presents to be passed out.

Ethan is always surrounded by GIRLS! He totally loves it!

Charlie awaits for the okay to open signal.

I am so glad that we were able to get together for another great year of family and friends! There are so many who have forgotten what this is all about. We get together twice a year and spend time with one another. When Grandma Goldie was alive it seemed so much simpler! Now, it seems like work to get together! How sad?

A very special baby boy was born on Christmas! The three kings brought him gifts! Lets remember how precious life is and how important it is to have family. All the other things are unimportant.

Ellis Family Christmas Party

2009-12-22T11:43:00.000-08:00

Ethan holds on for dear life to protect his present from the other children. Not that anyone would take it from him, seriously!

Connor, Ethan, Corey, Caleb and Charlie try to hold still for a Christmas picture.

Is Charlie ever not eating?

Winter Wonderland!

2009-12-21T13:25:00.000-08:00

Our first snow of the year! It was beautiful, a light dust covering everything! Not cold enough yet to freeze the creek.

This is our view at our kitchen table, it doesn't get any better than this!

2009-12-21T13:23:00.000-08:00

BFFs!

2009-12-21T13:19:00.000-08:00

Ethan and Charlie play so well together. I often find myself in a whirl wind trying to keep up with them! Today, Charlie was standing on the table and Ethan was reaching for my HOT tea pot that was on the stove! Wow! I am glad to say nobody got hurt.

Two year battle

2009-12-16T05:28:00.000-08:00

This picture was taken on dad's birthday, Jan. 8, 2008. Dad found out about his cancer a couple weeks earlier. He just got home from the hospital after having surgery a week prior and was in severe pain. Ethan has alway been extra sensitive; you can see the pain in his eyes for his papa!

It has been a long battle for dad and he is giving it his all! I am glad he has the "will" to fight. After Christmas dad will be having a bone scan to see if the cancer has spread to the bones. It currently is in the colon (which has been removed entirely), liver, lungs, lymph nodes, groin, and is filling the abdominal cavity.

Dr. Grainger has been taking such great care of him. He has great patient-doctor skills. He isn't pushy and he gives you the information while staying extremely optimistic. That is exactly what dad needs from his doctor.

I am just so thankful that the Lord God has given me such a wonderful earthly father! He is just such an awesome example of what a father should be! I just hope that his qualities have rubbed off on me.

Another Book

2009-12-14T11:34:00.000-08:00

I just read Dear John by Nicholas Sparks. It was good and I do recommend it to others. It was one that doesn't end the way you want it to and keeps you up because you can't stop thinking about it. It is about a young man who joins the military and falls in love while on leave back in the states. My favorite of Sparks is still The Notebook.

Gator Fun!

2009-12-08T05:12:00.000-08:00

Ethan and Ava took the Gator for a ride! Thanks to many contributors we were able to get Ethan a Gator for his birthday. His face was priceless when he came into the workshop and saw it. He tried so hard not to smile, until he couldn't take it anymore! Then he smiled so BIG! He is so sweet!

Ethan Turns 3!

2009-12-07T16:18:00.000-08:00

My little boy isn't "little" anymore. He is officially 3! Which means here comes pre-school. Ahhh, and we have hit the terrible threes full force. He is an amazing child of God! Ethan loves his daddy more than anything. He watches Dora the Explorer and Mickey Mouse Clubhouse every chance he gets. He loves trucks, tractors, fire trucks, and anything that involves wheels. Ethan is always taking care of "my baby" (that is what he calls Charlie).

Ava Baby, Corey and Ethan played in his room most of the night. They play so well together!

Charlie started the night off crying or should I say, screaming. But, calmed down once everyone got here.

Blue eyes, rose bud lips and dimples.

Papa Ben!

2009-12-07T16:15:00.000-08:00

Charlie was found on the couch with her Papa Ben's glasses on reading a book. She is so inlove with her Grandpa!

The Noise Level!

2009-12-03T11:58:00.000-08:00

My little E-man has brought the ear covers back out! He like so many others cannot stand the scream of Charlie. It is so excruciating and painfully exhausting it could drive anyone mad. Especially those so close to her! Can I say she is getting any better? NO! I thought with age, comes words, comes walking, and so much more. Not this one! I keep telling myself, "She is an earth shaker!" "She will do mighty things!" "She is a musician training her lungs!" Whatever to make it easier!

Wrapping Up

2009-12-03T11:48:00.000-08:00

I can't believe the fall quarter is almost over. It has been tough! When I went back to class I set academic goals. In my Educational Psychology I wanted to get a "B" and in my Business Communications I also wanted a "B". I try to be realistic when setting goals and look at factors that can affect the success of reaching the goal.

Last night in my Educational Psychology my professor made an announcement that there were a couple of students who didn't even need to show up for the final. That the person could take a zero on the final exam and still receive an "A" in the class. Then she mentioned this has never happened before! I didn't even think I could be one until one of the girls in the class came up to me and asked if I was one. Then I realized it is possible. I am one! I do not have to take the final! But then, do I give up like that and not finish with a "bang"? Do I go eventhough I will have an "A" no matter what?

I have accomplished a great task! Who would think my first quarter back could be so hard yet so rewarding? Not I! Wow!

Now I can focus all my energy on my Business Communications! Look out! Here I come!

Inspiring Motivation

2009-12-03T11:41:00.000-08:00

Inspiring Motivation
Kelly Lewis
Dr. Rogers
Educational Psychology
November 9, 2009

To better understand inspiring motivation, the words need to be defined. Motivation is self-focus that affects a behavior. Inspiration is focused on how others affect a behavior. Richard Bowman in “How Can Students Be Motivated: A Misplaced Question?” states, “Providing motivation is something that a teacher does to a student; inspiration is something that is a result of a trusting caring, mentoring relationship with a student” (81). Students that are externally motivated are affected by external forces that decide on their emotions and behaviors. Students that are inspired decide on their own emotions and behavior. According to Bowman, “Exceptional teachers guide students and colleagues to greatness by inspiring them to discover where one’s talents and passions intersect” (81). Extrinsic and intrinsic rewards need to be used in thoughtful, personal, and complimentary ways to engage academic success (Bowman 83).

There are many ways that teachers can use extrinsic and intrinsic rewards. One is to say thank you. Showing sincerity helps the student to feel recognized and valued, appreciated, and also helps with intrinsic motivation. The “thank you” needs to be occasional and unexpected to keep the student aware and alert to what the teacher and peers think.

Another way is to recognize students’ actions. Bowman states, “providing specific examples helps students build a cognitive map that they can draw on when facing similar challenges or situations in the future” (83). The students who observe the praise of the other student will recognize that they too will be noticed and appreciated. Students value intrinsic satisfaction and they value to receive extrinsic symbols (choice on how to perform task and projects).

Teachers need to foster positive expectations. The student needs to see that the teacher believes in their success. Self-doubt can be shattered by an effective teacher. The teacher can guide students with setting goals and helping them find solutions to achieve that goal. The teacher should believe in the students and allow them to make their own decisions.

Timely feedback needs to be given. Suggestions for improvement need to be given along with compliments. Giving compliments needs to be considered the norm in a classroom. Compliments need to be given often without suggestions.

Students need to be helped in finding meaning. Motivated students will do their personal best to finish a project or a specific task. Teachers need to explain to the students why the work is meaningful. A student may excel in a particular task with the encouragement of the teacher.
When stories are told it makes achievements possible. Often stories will provide inspiration and direction to students facing complex situations. Important stories will touch students at a different level. They make opportunities that seem far fetched; with inspiration and direction they become tangible.

Teachers need to show that values are a source of self-motivation. According to Bowman, “Values are the emotional rules that govern students’ attitudes, choices, and behavior in the classroom” (85). Intrinsic motivation is connected to one’s core beliefs.

New perspectives need to be provided. Students need to be able to view others’ view points and ideas in order for them to be better prepared and able to survive in this world.

How are students motivated to go to class in kindergarten but loose that motivation in the third and fourth grade? The high levels of motivation are being lost somewhere. We need to look at how we can motivate students without destroying their passion for an education. We need to focus less on extrinsic rewards and more on intrinsic motivations. Students need to feel that they are accepted, valued, and have the knowledge to be successful. “Where love reigns, the impossible may be attained.”-Indian proverb.

Reference
Bowman, R. (2007). “How Can Students Be Motivated: A Misplaced Question?”. Clearing House, 81(2), 81-86. Retrieved November 8, 2009, from, http://search.ebscohost.com

A Day at the Zoo!

2009-11-18T11:45:00.000-08:00

We visited the zoo in the middle of Nov. It was the nicest day, with 68 degrees and sunshine. It was amazing! This was the best zoo experience we have had. It was just the three of us (Charlie, Ethan and I). Ethan is getting older and is just so excited to see the animals and what they do. We visited the baby elephant, tigers, monkeys and the aquarium. Ethan thought the monkeys were hilarious. One was chewing up his food and then sticking his tongue to show everyone! Charlie really enjoys the food and other kids, not so much the animals.

Life With a Diva!

2009-11-17T16:42:00.000-08:00

She only appears sweet and innocent!

We went to the mall today. Ethan and I were sharing an icee in Macy's. Charlie started screaming at the top of her lungs because she wanted a drink. So, of course to shut her up I gave her a drink. She spit the red icee all over me and herself! Imagine the faces! Then, we went to my parents. When we got home, I started unloading our bags and found my parents' home cordless phone. While I was giving Ethan a bath, I was washing my hands in the sink and look over to see Charlie fall head first with her clothes on into the tub! After rushing over to get her head out from under the water, she laughed histarically! Then, she got her head stuck in between the dryer and the wall! She was screaming so hard her lips were blue!

What a day?!?!

On the Mend

2009-11-03T11:17:00.000-08:00

This is what happens when mommy has a sick day or should I say sick week. Luke took off an entire week to help take care of the kids and me! Bless his heart, he was in for a treat! Yeah, he thought that I get to sit around all day eating, watching tv, shopping. FUNNY! It's not all fun and games! I am am 90% better. There is still fluid in the lungs, but it is clearing up. The house work, and school work I am still behind on. Will I ever catch up? Probably not! Charlie is my little "mini tornado".

Will I Ever Get Better?

2009-10-25T07:57:00.000-07:00

I have been sick for almost TWO WEEKS now! Somewhere, I was infected with the swine flu. Then, I developed pnuemonia from my immune system being compromised (and the attack of the swine flu on the lungs). I am completely exhausted and still hacking up a lung! Last Friday my doctor prescribed an inhaler and cough meds. I already finished the antivirals and the antibiotics. Now, I guess I just have to be patient for my health to return.

This experience has been testing! I haven't been anywhere in almost two weeks. That means I have been in this apartment with two little kids going CRAZY! Even nap times have been interupted by my loud, noisy cough. That makes us all a little extra tired. My cough medicine is supposed to help me sleep. Funny! It makes me extra tired, but I am still up coughing! Poor Luke, having to put up with me all night long! I am lucky I married such a good man!

Trouble

2009-10-24T11:15:00.000-07:00

My little "Miss Thang"! She cleaned out my drawer, throwing everything on the floor. Then climbed into it. When I first saw her she gave me her sad face, because she thought I was going to make her get out!She is always into something. Total opposite of Ethan!

True Cowboy

2009-10-23T15:46:00.000-07:00

My little Ethan is a true cowboy. I can see him as a farmer when he gets a little bigger. He is my "Little Bird"!

I cannot keep Charlie out of the toy boxes! She is falling in head first, then crying with her feet in the air! She is my "Boo"!

Life as a Student

2009-10-23T15:31:00.000-07:00

I would never say my kids are neglected. But, they are getting way more TV time than I would say acceptable. I study, Ethan watches Dora, and Charlie gets into everything! It has definately been a lifestyle change. The hardest part is not cleaning. I have spend every spare second studying and not cleaning the apartment (which is in desperate need of some TLC). We do not get to run around like we used to, and I am always tired! I don't get it!
Why is it I feel I have to be eating something when I study? I had to buy a size up in my jeans! All this sitting at a desk is tough work, but I need to be burning calories!

Nursing School

2009-10-12T06:29:00.000-07:00

Nursing School here I come! I passed the nurse entrance test with flying colors and I am ready to apply to nursing school! In January I will be applying and if I get in, I will start in September. So exciting! I have got to get this done, I need more babies!

No More Bones!

2009-10-11T13:47:00.000-07:00

I am so tired of studying Human Anatomy. It is consuming my every waking moment. So far in the last three weeks we have studied every part of the tissue, the back, and the lower limbs. That includes muscles, nerves and bones! I am proud of myself! I didn't pass out when we worked with the cadeavers! Yeah for me!